Being a psychologist obviously brings introspective capabilities. I have came to realise my pattern of breaking bonds with people under three conditions;
- When they complain/make insuniating comments when one is late to a casual coffee date.
- When they choose to eat smelly animal products (chicken/beef or eggs) near me, when they clearly know I am a vegan. (They either do not have the empathy, or they do not respect me enough- either way; I feel ignored.)
- Luckily this happens very rarely- when people are more money oriented compared to our relationship. When they openly asks for the price they paid for coffee, a sandwich, or a ticket without giving you the time to pay back.
I choose to cut these people off directly without trying to tell them why it bothers me, because I believe these are all characteristic attitudes- to sum up, I dare bot continue relationships with stingy people.
Stingy with their time, food choices, and money.
There are always plenty of people in the world that will be generous in friendships.
Gündem / Agenda 